A trend I've noticed.....

[jschwa]

There's a trend in older men that I have noticed over the last few years. I don't know if it's just come to the forefront because of the internet or has it always been this way and nobody knew? I won't even try and venture a guess at the number, but it seems that quite a lot of adamantly heterosexual men have become "curious". What I mean by adamantly is that they initially swore that they would never touch or suck another man's cock. Now, it seems that all these senior men (myself included) are curious about stroking and sucking cock. I know there have always been gay men. In fact, I had a gay friend in high school, but until somewhat recently gay was gay and straight was straight. Most heterosexual men would say that they would die before touching a cock that wasn't theirs, let alone sucking one. These days they seem to have lost all their inhibitions and decided to go for it. There are all kinds of groups and forums about men masturbating together, men trading handjobs and even men trading blowjobs. Hell, some of these men just want to suck cock without any reciprocation. I hear a lot of them talking about how "once you suck your first cock you'll never stop" and how they're hooked on swallowing loads of cum.

Has anyone else noticed this?
If so, how long ago did you become aware of this trend?
Are you one of these curious men?
Are you one of the men that has successfully thrown aside your heterosexual status and actually sucked a cock?

[wanklover]

I can honestly say that I have never ever had the slightest interest in male/male sexual activity. I'm not even curious about it. Good luck to those who are. The only thing I've enjoyed is masturbating on cam with other men only because I like the companionship and I found it therapeutically stimulating. Just wish I could find a female member on ST that would c

[iamnaked]

It about options.
Guys in general get fat and less desirable to women.
Or their wives loose interest, often because they also get fat and less desirable.
The libido weakens as health deteriorates.
Women need courtship to get turned on but most men have not a clue.
It takes time with women and I don’t mean an hour of foreplay.
It starts with love notes days before or flowers.
At least dinner and drinks. But then again older men work and work a lot so they have less time to work out and stay in shape.
In shape, boy that’s a conundrum.
Financial shape, physical shape, mental shape. Takes a lot to keep a penis support system working properly.
Women need many things to fall into place to get that pussy wet and open for business.
Men just need a place.
So,
Men get together and in minutes can be getting or giving a blow job.
Women are social creatures where men are like dogs and when the wind blows in the next county their peckers get all excited. Sucking a nice HARD Cock is fun but.
I will never sit around and masturbate with men, I want to run around Nekkid or better yet get sum PUSSY !
I’m a sixty five year old hottie with a flat stomach and a trim cyclist body. I like to Fuck, HARD :’P ARroooooOOOooo~~~~deep breath then~~~
Hoowwwwwlllllling at the moon you will find this Werewolf !

[spunkluvr]

I've found, with all my straight mates (four of them married), that if a guy is horny enough he can quickly forget how "straight" he professes to be.

[jschwa]

I've found, with all my straight mates (four of them married), that if a guy is horny enough he can quickly forget how "straight" he professes to be.

I have absolutely nothing against bisexuals or gays. In fact, these days I'm think about cock myself!!
This goes along with my theory that all humans, whether they want to admit or not are all subconsciously bisexual. I have talked to a great many men who adamantly swore that they were 100% heterosexual, but they would hesitantly and anonymously admit that they would accept a blowjob from another man under the right circumstances. To me that is bisexual. If you're 100% heterosexual you don't involve yourself in any type of sexual activity with a member of the same gender, albeit a hanjob, blowjob or anal.

[blackboxer500]

I have thoughts about this. I believe there are more guys now who are open to the idea on a conscious level than there were a decade ago — but it’s always been there on a subconscious level. One factor has to be the normalization of same sex relations, and the other factor is the internet’s ability to connect like-minded people who previously were isolated in their sexuality.

I am basically straight but am drawn to hard cocks, especially the ejaculating ones. This was true before the internet. I never wanted to kiss or cuddle with guys, couldn’t possibly fall in love with a dude, and am not taken by a handsome man, etc., but I had these fairly vivid and specific yearnings for hard cocks. On top of that, I have a natural libertine personality, and wish society would chill over sex.

But before LGBT advocacy was a thing, society had very strong condemnation of same sex behavior. This made it easy for men like me to completely suppress any same sex desires. I loved women, loved straight sex, got plenty of it, and so there was not an overwhelming urge to seek out cocks. Society was highly conducive to heteronormative conduct and hostile toward homosexuality, so it was easy and natural for guys like me to believe their same sex longings were an aberration best kept silent, probably not even real, and simply go with the socially acceptable flow.

But now we know things we didn’t know before. Although we are currently in a blowback period where much of society is reacting negatively to LGBT rights, the genie is out of the bottle. We know that many, many men have sexuality similar to mine. So instead of me believing I was an anomaly as a mostly straight guy with easily suppressed bisexual tendencies, I know orientations like mine are common and normal.

As a result I now feel like I’m under much less pressure to suppress my lust for hard cocks, and sites like ST give me an avenue of expression for these desires where I’m unlikely to receive negative responses.

So I would answer the big question this way: although most men have always had latent bisexual tendencies, most of us were easily able to completely suppress these desires, even to the point of convincing ourselves any such thoughts were just our ramped up libido temporarily taking over, and that we really didn’t want any cock. Now the self-deception is not so easy, because we know it’s common and normal. So now we can admit it both to ourselves and to others.

[willbrown]

There's a trend in older men that I have noticed over the last few years. I don't know if it's just come to the forefront because of the internet or has it always been this way and nobody knew? I won't even try and venture a guess at the number, but it seems that quite a lot of adamantly heterosexual men have become "curious". What I mean by adamantly is that they initially swore that they would never touch or suck another man's cock. Now, it seems that all these senior men (myself included) are curious about stroking and sucking cock. I know there have always been gay men. In fact, I had a gay friend in high school, but until somewhat recently gay was gay and straight was straight. Most heterosexual men would say that they would die before touching a cock that wasn't theirs, let alone sucking one. These days they seem to have lost all their inhibitions and decided to go for it. There are all kinds of groups and forums about men masturbating together, men trading handjobs and even men trading blowjobs. Hell, some of these men just want to suck cock without any reciprocation. I hear a lot of them talking about how "once you suck your first cock you'll never stop" and how they're hooked on swallowing loads of cum.

Has anyone else noticed this?
If so, how long ago did you become aware of this trend?
Are you one of these curious men?
Are you one of the men that has successfully thrown aside your heterosexual status and actually sucked a cock?

I'm one of those men. I've craved sucking cock since I retired. I love to watch a man cum and I've only sucked 1 cock...but the guy was so paranoid it wasn't that enjoyable...but I'd be interested for sure.

[loganseffin7]

I have no interest in touching or sucking another guys cock. However, I have no problem showing mine to anyone, male or female. And I have sent people images, including ones of me masturbating and ejaculating. I read about this in GQ. I’m one of those people who needs affirmation that I have a big, thick, beautiful cock. Happy to share. Just send me a friend request.

[oldfan]

I am 72 years old now and know that I have had an interest in playing with another cock for almost 40 years, though the social and stigma and my conscience prevented me from acting on it until just three years ago.

[wheelboy2]

I have a big, thick, beautiful cock. Happy to share. Just send me a friend request.

Instant friend request. I need to see your cock real bad.

[loganseffin7]

I have a big, thick, beautiful cock. Happy to share. Just send me a friend request.

Instant friend request. I need to see your cock real bad.

Check your inbox

[wheelboy2]

Check your inbox

That cock's a beauty. Thanks!

[mash2014]

I think it has been like that for ages. In my case, until recently I would keep my attraction to cocks or men to myself. When a man touched me for the first time, it felt good. I was a kid. When I had my first male-to-male encounter I did question my sexuality. I began to think I was gay and the thought of being gay was scary. As years went by I had other sexual contact with other men but although I wanted it, I didn't admit it. But the older I got, I began to admit to myself that I enjoyed thinking in other cocks and desiring that intimate contact with other men. I have masturbated thinking in cocks and having fantasies with other men.
However, I mostly fantasize and masturbate thinking of women but there are occasions when men take preference.

[rathb69]

I have thoughts about this. I believe there are more guys now who are open to the idea on a conscious level than there were a decade ago — but it’s always been there on a subconscious level. One factor has to be the normalization of same sex relations, and the other factor is the internet’s ability to connect like-minded people who previously were isolated in their sexuality.

I am basically straight but am drawn to hard cocks, especially the ejaculating ones. This was true before the internet. I never wanted to kiss or cuddle with guys, couldn’t possibly fall in love with a dude, and am not taken by a handsome man, etc., but I had these fairly vivid and specific yearnings for hard cocks. On top of that, I have a natural libertine personality, and wish society would chill over sex.

But before LGBT advocacy was a thing, society had very strong condemnation of same sex behavior. This made it easy for men like me to completely suppress any same sex desires. I loved women, loved straight sex, got plenty of it, and so there was not an overwhelming urge to seek out cocks. Society was highly conducive to heteronormative conduct and hostile toward homosexuality, so it was easy and natural for guys like me to believe their same sex longings were an aberration best kept silent, probably not even real, and simply go with the socially acceptable flow.

But now we know things we didn’t know before. Although we are currently in a blowback period where much of society is reacting negatively to LGBT rights, the genie is out of the bottle. We know that many, many men have sexuality similar to mine. So instead of me believing I was an anomaly as a mostly straight guy with easily suppressed bisexual tendencies, I know orientations like mine are common and normal.

As a result I now feel like I’m under much less pressure to suppress my lust for hard cocks, and sites like ST give me an avenue of expression for these desires where I’m unlikely to receive negative responses.

So I would answer the big question this way: although most men have always had latent bisexual tendencies, most of us were easily able to completely suppress these desires, even to the point of convincing ourselves any such thoughts were just our ramped up libido temporarily taking over, and that we really didn’t want any cock. Now the self-deception is not so easy, because we know it’s common and normal. So now we can admit it both to ourselves and to others.

I think I agree with all of this (very well stated). Another possibility is (or I would just emphasize) that things might have always been this way, but the Internet has allowed men easy access to photos and videos of male centric sex which feeds the curiosity and desires. Whenever I want to see naked men, cocks, men having sex or just jacking off and ejaculating, I can do it and find/discuss with like minded men on ST and other sites. Seeing various acts and discussing them openly has fueled my desire to join the fun, which for me so far has been to embrace jacking off around other men and sometimes engaging in mutual cock play/fondling.

[hairybi]

But before LGBT advocacy was a thing, society had very strong condemnation of same sex behavior. This made it easy for men like me to completely suppress any same sex desires. I loved women, loved straight sex, got plenty of it, and so there was not an overwhelming urge to seek out cocks. Society was highly conducive to heteronormative conduct and hostile toward homosexuality, so it was easy and natural for guys like me to believe their same sex longings were an aberration best kept silent, probably not even real, and simply go with the socially acceptable flows. . .

So I would answer the big question this way: although most men have always had latent bisexual tendencies, most of us were easily able to completely suppress these desires, even to the point of convincing ourselves any such thoughts were just our ramped up libido temporarily taking over, and that we really didn’t want any cock. Now the self-deception is not so easy, because we know it’s common and normal. So now we can admit it both to ourselves and to others.

I think I agree with all of this (very well stated). Another possibility is (or I would just emphasize) that things might have always been this way, but the Internet has allowed men easy access to photos and videos of male centric sex which feeds the curiosity and desires. Whenever I want to see naked men, cocks, men having sex or just jacking off and ejaculating, I can do it and find/discuss with like minded men on ST and other sites. Seeing various acts and discussing them openly has fueled my desire to join the fun, which for me so far has been to embrace jacking off around other men and sometimes engaging in mutual cock play/fondling.

Both blackboxer and rath have written superb comments, and I agree with their analysis. For me, I was always curious, played around as a teen, stopped cold turkey when I married except for male fantasies while masturbating, started with gay porn while traveling in my thirties, experimented with a man in my forties, and now much more gay than straight in desire. In my lifetime, masturbation was by far my highest outlet, followed by straight sex, with gay sex a distant third. However, I really am more into men now. I think those of us with a high sex drive, who masturbate a lot, may be more inclined to experiment with all kinds of sex.

[mash2014]

But before LGBT advocacy was a thing, society had very strong condemnation of same sex behavior. This made it easy for men like me to completely suppress any same sex desires. I loved women, loved straight sex, got plenty of it, and so there was not an overwhelming urge to seek out cocks. Society was highly conducive to heteronormative conduct and hostile toward homosexuality, so it was easy and natural for guys like me to believe their same sex longings were an aberration best kept silent, probably not even real, and simply go with the socially acceptable flows. . .

So I would answer the big question this way: although most men have always had latent bisexual tendencies, most of us were easily able to completely suppress these desires, even to the point of convincing ourselves any such thoughts were just our ramped up libido temporarily taking over, and that we really didn’t want any cock. Now the self-deception is not so easy, because we know it’s common and normal. So now we can admit it both to ourselves and to others.

I think I agree with all of this (very well stated). Another possibility is (or I would just emphasize) that things might have always been this way, but the Internet has allowed men easy access to photos and videos of male centric sex which feeds the curiosity and desires. Whenever I want to see naked men, cocks, men having sex or just jacking off and ejaculating, I can do it and find/discuss with like minded men on ST and other sites. Seeing various acts and discussing them openly has fueled my desire to join the fun, which for me so far has been to embrace jacking off around other men and sometimes engaging in mutual cock play/fondling.

Both blackboxer and rath have written superb comments, and I agree with their analysis. For me, I was always curious, played around as a teen, stopped cold turkey when I married except for male fantasies while masturbating, started with gay porn while traveling in my thirties, experimented with a man in my forties, and now much more gay than straight in desire. In my lifetime, masturbation was by far my highest outlet, followed by straight sex, with gay sex a distant third. However, I really am more into men now. I think those of us with a high sex drive, who masturbate a lot, may be more inclined to experiment with all kinds of sex.

I have a high sex drive and have masturbated a lot since I was 12. I'm straight but since my early days, I have been approached and touched by men, and for the most part, liked being touched. By the time I was 14, I had crushes on other kids from my classroom, I experienced with few men sexually, and later in life I met a younger man and I felt so sexually attracted to him that for quite some time I masturbated thinking of him. Nothing ever happened but then I knew it was perfectly fine to desire and fantasize on both sides of the aisle.
When I found ST I just read stories mostly of man-woman, incest, and lesbian sex. One day I decided to navigate more ST and found this forum. It was more than I expected. Men just like me, straight in nature but with some attraction to men and cocks. I spent a few days reading and masturbating.
To this day, I still masturbate mostly thinking of women, especially those in my circle of life but accepting that I do like cocks and there are a few men that I find attractive and sexy.
It took a good part of my sexual life to understand and accept my sexuality and who I am.